According to the emails I've received since I started this blog last week, there are three main areas that readers would like me to address:
Communication
Intimacy
Other
I will be blogging in general terms about Communication and Intimacy, but I'll need some help with "Other." If you'd like personalized responses to specific issues, please do not hesitate to write me at:
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Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Monday, June 23, 2008
Mentoring Monday - Featuring Ministry Marketing Solutions
Pam Perry,
Chief Visionary of Ministry Marketing Solutions
Pam's Perry's guidance, encouragment, PR workshops/seminars/conferences and networking functions are key contributing factors to getting my debut novel onto bookstore shelves and into the hands of hundreds of readers! To God be the glory! Visit her on the web!
Nurturing, Developing, Teaching and Testifying = Mentoring
And they overcame by the Blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.
Rev. 12:11 KVJ
As I think about it, the primary purpose in my developing this blog is to mentor. I'm at the 'tweenie' stage in life where I'm not exactly a newbie, but I'm not old enough to be considered a "mother" of the church. Besides, mentoring should not be based upon chronological age but rather, area of expertise, training and life experiences. Mentoring is actually an extensive testimony of lesson's we've learned. Particularly when we overcome fiery trials - it's not all about us, but for us to be in a position to encourage someone else at a later time.
When the Lord blesses us with skills, experiences, victories and the like, we can't just sit on them -it's our responsibility to Pay It Forward.
I've had some wonderful women who've mentored me and are still doing so today. Along the way I meet new mentors. Who says you can't teach an old (or middle aged) dog new tricks. We all need to attach ourselves to someone who has been there and done that. God forbid that I should ever reach a point in life where I think I know it all.
Split-Second Bible Lesson On Mentoring
The passing of the mantle from the elder prophet, Elijah to his successor Elisha is the description of a mentoring relationship. In Scripture, those with wisdom continually share that wisdom, together with their own experiences, with novices. Naomi schooled her widowed Moabite daughter-in-law in the intricacies of Jewish law so that Ruth could re-marry and become part of the Messiah's lineage (Ruth 3-4). Mordecai shrewdly steered Esther through the treachery of the Persian court to save the lives of God's chosen people (Esther 2-7).
In her older cousin Elizabeth, Mary had a miraculously expectant mentor to coach her during her first trimester of pregnancy (Luke 1:39-56). The apostle Paul gave astute advice, enabling Timothy and Titus to multiply his ministry; and in the Gospels, Jesus illuminated the way for the Twelve, the first of generations of disciples to follow the ultimate Mentor.
Women have a special admonition for mentoring. The older women in the church are challenged to teach or mentor the younger or less experienced women. (Titus 2:1-5). This one-on-one process has also been called "spiritual mothering." Paul described the qualifications for these mentors and set forth what they were to teach. This is a positive and important ministry in the church for women.
Nurturing, Developing, Teaching and Testifying = Mentoring
And they overcame by the Blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony.
Rev. 12:11 KVJ
As I think about it, the primary purpose in my developing this blog is to mentor. I'm at the 'tweenie' stage in life where I'm not exactly a newbie, but I'm not old enough to be considered a "mother" of the church. Besides, mentoring should not be based upon chronological age but rather, area of expertise, training and life experiences. Mentoring is actually an extensive testimony of lesson's we've learned. Particularly when we overcome fiery trials - it's not all about us, but for us to be in a position to encourage someone else at a later time.
When the Lord blesses us with skills, experiences, victories and the like, we can't just sit on them -it's our responsibility to Pay It Forward.
I've had some wonderful women who've mentored me and are still doing so today. Along the way I meet new mentors. Who says you can't teach an old (or middle aged) dog new tricks. We all need to attach ourselves to someone who has been there and done that. God forbid that I should ever reach a point in life where I think I know it all.
Split-Second Bible Lesson On Mentoring
The passing of the mantle from the elder prophet, Elijah to his successor Elisha is the description of a mentoring relationship. In Scripture, those with wisdom continually share that wisdom, together with their own experiences, with novices. Naomi schooled her widowed Moabite daughter-in-law in the intricacies of Jewish law so that Ruth could re-marry and become part of the Messiah's lineage (Ruth 3-4). Mordecai shrewdly steered Esther through the treachery of the Persian court to save the lives of God's chosen people (Esther 2-7).
In her older cousin Elizabeth, Mary had a miraculously expectant mentor to coach her during her first trimester of pregnancy (Luke 1:39-56). The apostle Paul gave astute advice, enabling Timothy and Titus to multiply his ministry; and in the Gospels, Jesus illuminated the way for the Twelve, the first of generations of disciples to follow the ultimate Mentor.
Women have a special admonition for mentoring. The older women in the church are challenged to teach or mentor the younger or less experienced women. (Titus 2:1-5). This one-on-one process has also been called "spiritual mothering." Paul described the qualifications for these mentors and set forth what they were to teach. This is a positive and important ministry in the church for women.
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Introduction to Pearls of Wisdom
Hello!
I'm Venus Mason Theus. I've been happily married for 23 years, have a blended family which consists of 5 adult offspring and todate - 13 grandchildren ranging in age from 3 months to 21 years. My husband and I are the directors of the family ministry and facilitate an interactive bible study group for married couples at the church we attend in Detroit, Michigan. He is a licensed counselor. Last year, I self published my debut novel Brown Paper Bag - E3 Publications. I am also a freelance writer and self-proclaimed full-time family manager (that sounds better than house wife doesn't it?)
I decided to start this blog because women (and a few good men) ask me for marital advice all of the time - and they keep coming back for more! The issues couples bring to me are usually not uncommon; however the enemy would have us to believe that we're the only ones facing our challenges. I hope that you will enjoy this blog, and most of all be blessed by the information you receive. I'll start by sharing tips from a few "seasoned" ladies who are happily married.
I hope that everyone understands that a successful marriage is not error or problem free. One important element that makes marriage happy and successful is to keep that thought in mind. God must be the center of your marriage. Seek His wisdom and His will for your marriage. He will help you to weather any storm your marriage might encounter - believe I know. Venus
Tips For a "Successful" Marriage
Recently, I asked several friends and family members who are happily married to share one thing THEY do that contributes to making their marriage a happy one. Here are their responses...
"To keep a marriage strong you must take the ordinary out and put in the element of surprise. Plan a rendezvous to two." Shirley Thompson., Detroit, MI, Married 23 years
"I will muster up my Wonder Woman energy and do those things that make him smile and turn him on. And in return, I get the same, glory to God! Do unto husband as you would have him do unto you!" - Sheritha Bowman, Germantown, MD; Author & Playwright, Married 19 years
"We have date nights, which range from a beautiful night out with dinner and a movie to a bag of onion rings and a soda in front of the T.V. We make us important and if I want a date night I am not afraid to court him, (He's mine and I enjoy him)." - Cherise (Thues) Miller, Richmond, VA; Married 5 years
"I try to remember what happens if you do not have commitment. Without commitment, one begins to count and measure the contributions they make, instead of freely giving their all. - Bernadette Hardy, Southfield, Michigan; Married 44 years
My husband is a great communicator and loves to talk, so I have learned to become a good listener. In so doing, I am in tune with his feelings, desires and needs. Therefore, I am equipped to fulfill his needs without the guesswork. - Sheila Glenn, West Bloomfield, MI; Married 21 years
We have very hectic schedules because I'm completingmy masters degree, as well as, working full-time. My husband works an opposite shift from 2 to 10pm. We take a few minutes in the morning to talk and find outwhat's going in my husband's life before I head out ofthe door. At least once a week we have dinner together. We make the time so that we can catch upand see each other. Karen White Owens - Author, Detroit, Michigan; married 19 years
"Never nag him or complain about his faults, even if they drive you nuts. Smile and love him and bite your tongue." Beverly Patton, Fort Meyers, FLA., Married 48 years
My tip: Choose your battles. It's not always important to be right. Many times your husband will learn you're right without you're having to say "I told you so." - Venus
I'm Venus Mason Theus. I've been happily married for 23 years, have a blended family which consists of 5 adult offspring and todate - 13 grandchildren ranging in age from 3 months to 21 years. My husband and I are the directors of the family ministry and facilitate an interactive bible study group for married couples at the church we attend in Detroit, Michigan. He is a licensed counselor. Last year, I self published my debut novel Brown Paper Bag - E3 Publications. I am also a freelance writer and self-proclaimed full-time family manager (that sounds better than house wife doesn't it?)
I decided to start this blog because women (and a few good men) ask me for marital advice all of the time - and they keep coming back for more! The issues couples bring to me are usually not uncommon; however the enemy would have us to believe that we're the only ones facing our challenges. I hope that you will enjoy this blog, and most of all be blessed by the information you receive. I'll start by sharing tips from a few "seasoned" ladies who are happily married.
I hope that everyone understands that a successful marriage is not error or problem free. One important element that makes marriage happy and successful is to keep that thought in mind. God must be the center of your marriage. Seek His wisdom and His will for your marriage. He will help you to weather any storm your marriage might encounter - believe I know. Venus
Tips For a "Successful" Marriage
Recently, I asked several friends and family members who are happily married to share one thing THEY do that contributes to making their marriage a happy one. Here are their responses...
"To keep a marriage strong you must take the ordinary out and put in the element of surprise. Plan a rendezvous to two." Shirley Thompson., Detroit, MI, Married 23 years
"I will muster up my Wonder Woman energy and do those things that make him smile and turn him on. And in return, I get the same, glory to God! Do unto husband as you would have him do unto you!" - Sheritha Bowman, Germantown, MD; Author & Playwright, Married 19 years
"We have date nights, which range from a beautiful night out with dinner and a movie to a bag of onion rings and a soda in front of the T.V. We make us important and if I want a date night I am not afraid to court him, (He's mine and I enjoy him)." - Cherise (Thues) Miller, Richmond, VA; Married 5 years
"I try to remember what happens if you do not have commitment. Without commitment, one begins to count and measure the contributions they make, instead of freely giving their all. - Bernadette Hardy, Southfield, Michigan; Married 44 years
My husband is a great communicator and loves to talk, so I have learned to become a good listener. In so doing, I am in tune with his feelings, desires and needs. Therefore, I am equipped to fulfill his needs without the guesswork. - Sheila Glenn, West Bloomfield, MI; Married 21 years
We have very hectic schedules because I'm completingmy masters degree, as well as, working full-time. My husband works an opposite shift from 2 to 10pm. We take a few minutes in the morning to talk and find outwhat's going in my husband's life before I head out ofthe door. At least once a week we have dinner together. We make the time so that we can catch upand see each other. Karen White Owens - Author, Detroit, Michigan; married 19 years
"Never nag him or complain about his faults, even if they drive you nuts. Smile and love him and bite your tongue." Beverly Patton, Fort Meyers, FLA., Married 48 years
My tip: Choose your battles. It's not always important to be right. Many times your husband will learn you're right without you're having to say "I told you so." - Venus
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